Our family spent one year in Quèbec, Canada to learn French since our ministry would take place in a French-speaking country. Language learning doesn’t end when class is over, though. It is a continual part of our life in Niger – always working to improve our communication skills.
Last year, a missionary friend of mine knew I was searching for a language partner to help me with my conversational skills, someone who would be willing – and had the time – to sit and chat with me. She knew of a widow who has lived in Niger for many years, though she is not Nigérien. She is from Lebanon, having moved to Niger with her husband to raise their family and run a business. This woman, my friend assured me, would love to have a visitor from time to time since her children are grown up and moved out, and she speaks wonderful French. I decided to give it a try.
What began as a little experiment based on my language needs, has turned into a sweet friendship. I began to visit Lina in her home for one or two hours every week, where we would chat about all sorts of things – politics, family, God, and our faith experiences. We always have coffee and some little sweet treat that she has prepared, something unique to her culture.
That friendship began in March of 2023. This year, upon my arrival in January, we picked up right where we left off last summer!
This time, though, I also began to meet her friends. They would often stop by while I was visiting, giving us even more to chat about. It was delightful! And one Sunday after church, Lina hosted Andy and I for lunch, along with her grown son and one of her friends. Of course she doted on us, and the next time I visited her, she gushed about how handsome and kind Andy is.
I am not sure if my language skills have improved at all from these meetings, but I am deeply thankful for Lina nonetheless. Her unlikely friendship has been a sweet surprise from the Lord.